WICHITA, Kan. — The tragic death of 20-year-old Naomi Oglesby has brought attention to the issue of domestic violence and its often-hidden signs. Friends say they noticed a deterioration in her relationship with suspected shooter Matthew Criscenzo in the months leading up to the incident.
“I could see the warning signs, but it was hard to know how to approach her,” said Madison Lee, one of Naomi’s friends. Another close friend, Laci Dooling, expressed a sense of helplessness: “We wanted to help, but we didn’t know what to say or how to intervene.”
Naomi was found shot early Sunday morning in a residential area of Wichita. At the time, she was pregnant and unfortunately succumbed to her injuries shortly after giving birth. Those close to her are now advocating for a stronger community response to domestic violence.
Amanda Meyers, Executive Director of the Wichita Family Crisis Center, highlighted that similar tragedies occur frequently in Kansas. Statistically, a domestic violence homicide happens every 11 days in the state. “We need to break the silence surrounding these issues,” Meyers said. “People often think of relationship problems as private matters, but when safety is at stake, it’s crucial to speak up and provide support.”
Meyers pointed out several behavioral changes that can indicate someone might be in an abusive relationship. Signs include unexplained isolation, excessive control by a partner over clothing choices, and constant monitoring of communications. “These behaviors are red flags that someone may be in danger,” she stated.
Naomi’s friends hope her tragic story serves as a cautionary tale. “We want people to understand how serious this can get,” Dooling stressed. “If you see something, don’t just ignore it. You might think it’s not your business, but it could save a life.”
Criscenzo, who is facing charges of first-degree murder, contempt of court, and domestic battery, has yet to enter a plea. The case underscores the urgent need for awareness and resources surrounding domestic violence.
For those in similar situations, the Wichita Family Crisis Center offers support and assistance. They can be reached at (316) 267-7233. Additionally, a GoFundMe page has been established to help cover Naomi’s funeral expenses, reflecting the community’s wish to honor her memory and prevent further tragedies.